Self Care Blog

Some times problems  just can’t be solved without help from a qualified counselor.  Someone who is objective and can act as a mediator at times.   Your spouse is acting differently and you want to know why.  You may have tried talking to your spouse about your concerns and the response is “Why do you think that?” or ” Why would you say that?”.  You try to explain, but can’t get your point across to her/him.  What do you do?  You go to marriage counseling.

Marriage counseling strategies will help you learn how to communicate with each other and deal with the pressures of marriage.

I am such a people watcher!  I like to observe people and watch how they interact with those around them.  If they are by themselves it is interesting to me how they use their time. Some are on the phone talking through a bluetooth device, some are attached to an Ipod, some are sitting people watching like me, others read, some just enjoy their surroundings.  However, the ones I am always fascinated by are the couples.  Are they being nice to each other?  Are they being crabby?  Is the baby screaming?  How are they handling these situations?  Obviously, in these scenarios a compromise seems to work the best.

I like to think these couples are extremely happy and in love.  They have either learned or are learning how to be a good mate.  They offer support and show kindness to their mates. It is such a joy to see.  The are affecting me with their love for each other.  Their blissful marriage is a beautiful thing for an ol’ people watcher like me to see!